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Arousal Non Concordance
/in The Sex Healer, Videos/by Amanda PasciuccoArousal Non Concordance: Body And Brain Can Disagree Getting hard or wet does not mean you want sex. Your body and brain run two separate systems and they don’t always agree. In this video I break down arousal non concordance: why genital response is just a spinal reflex (like salivation), why it can happen […]
The Long-Term Psychological Effects of Female Circumcision
/in Health, Women/by Amanda PasciuccoThe Long-Term Psychological Effects of Female Circumcision Medical literature has documented the physical consequences of female circumcision in detail. For many survivors, the wounds that take longest to heal are the ones no one can see. The psychological impact can last for years, sometimes a lifetime. It can shape how a person experiences her […]
Compromise in a Relationship
/in The Sex Healer, Videos/by Amanda PasciuccoCompromise in a Relationship: Stop Shrinking to Keep Peace Compromise in a relationship is not one person saying yes just to keep the peace while the other takes the yes and moves on. In this video I break down why “fair means equal” wrecks relationships, what it feels like if you’re the one who […]
Understanding Psychological Shock After a Traumatic Event
/in Handling Conflict, Trauma/by Amanda PasciuccoUnderstanding Psychological Shock After a Traumatic Event When something traumatic hits, psychological shock is one of the most common things that follows. Your mind often can’t keep pace with what just happened. One minute life feels ordinary; the next, everything has shifted and you’re left disoriented, numb, or frozen, unable to take it in […]
Does Edging Make You Last Longer?
/in The Sex Healer, Videos/by Amanda PasciuccoDoes Edging Make You Last Longer Than A Panic Hard-Stop? In this video, I explain what edging is really training: learning to recognize your arousal before you hit the point of no return. I walk through the 1–10 arousal scale, what a “7” actually feels like, and how to practice moving up and down […]
Does Chocolate Really Work as an Aphrodisiac?
/in Creating Desire, Intimacy/by Amanda PasciuccoDoes Chocolate Really Work as an Aphrodisiac? People have tied chocolate to desire for a long time. It turns up in heart-shaped boxes on Valentine’s Day, sits on anniversary dessert menus, and gets passed across the table at the start of more romantic evenings than anyone bothers to count. The question is whether it […]
What to Do When One Partner Wants Sex More
/in The Sex Healer, Videos/by Amanda PasciuccoWhat to Do When One Partner Wants Sex More One partner wants sex more than the other and it’s starting to feel personal. If you’re the higher-desire partner, you might be interpreting the “not tonight” as rejection.If you’re the lower-desire partner, you might feel constant pressure and start avoiding even small moments of closeness. […]
What Is Intimacy?
/in Intimacy, Relationship Tips/by Amanda PasciuccoWhat Is Intimacy? Understanding Its Role in Healthy Relationships Most people hear what is intimacy, they picture partnered sex. That is the first and most common mix-up I run into. Intimacy is the experience of being known-really known-by another person. You show the messy, unfiltered version of yourself and still feel safe. Without it, […]
Menopause and Libido
/in The Sex Healer, Videos/by Amanda PasciuccoMenopause and Libido – Why Desire “Dies” After 40? Menopause and libido changes after 40 are more common than you think. Has your sexual desire changed and have you been wondering if menopause is to blame? In this video, Amanda Pasciucco, a PhD in clinical sexology and an AASECT-certified sex therapist, breaks down responsive […]
Financial Doms
/in The Sex Healer, Videos/by Amanda PasciuccoFinancial Doms: What It Really Is + How to Practice Safely Financial doms hit different when one part of you wants to send it and the other is staring at rent. If that’s you, watch this. I walk through the floor protocol so financial doms stay hot without eating your actual life, cap before […]