Best Male Sex Toys in 2021
Lately, we have been asked to write a list of the best male sex toys for cis men.
Even though many think they know the best male sex toys. They are often missing other toys that can be found in stores and online.
We define male sex toys in this blog as toys that are designed to use on bodies with penises.
The Cock Ring
The beginner state of male sex play starts to give the penis the idea of what could be better or more interesting to up level intimacy.
Penis rings or cock rings are essentially a ring (sometimes with multiple loops) that goes around the base of your penis (and if there are extra loops, those would go around the testicles).
Supposedly, the tighter the sex toy ring, the more that the blood flow that goes into your penis is restricted.
The result is the best feeling for many, as they report longer-lasting erections and more intense orgasms. Cock rings come in a variety of colors and sizes.
Some of the cock rings have padded silicone to prevent any irritations from the vibrations. It is a great teaser product during PVI (penis vagina intercourse) sex. As it allows just part of the penis to do the actual penetration.
A prostate massager is just that. It’s placed around the anus or inserted into the anus. The toy has several different settings on it that range in speed and intensity. If you’re an anal sex pro, go all out. If you’re new to this game, take it slow and remember to use lube.
Some prostate massages are inventive. There are some available for sale now that have another section that’s placed and designed to massage your perineum. The sensitive area of skin between your anus and your scrotum.
You can use a prostate massage on yourself as you masturbate. And it’s a ton of fun with a partner taking turns and using the remote to control how intense their pleasure is.
The fleshlight is undoubtedly the most famous male sex toy out there. The fleshlight is a brand, and it’s so famous that an entire sex toy category, rubber vaginas, is referred to by that term. Another name you’ll often hear is pocket pussies. The fleshlight gets its name because it’s designed to look like a common flashlight. Pop the top off, though, and that’s where the fun begins.
Sex toy manufacturers are pulling out all of the stops with male sex toys. You can design a flesh light to very specific measurements to simulate a certain level of tightness or even one of your lover’s vaginas.
These toys come in starter packs that include lubrication and other accessories. You insert your penis into the rubber vagina and masturbate with it on.
Anal plugs, or butt plugs, can be enjoyed by everyone. Basic plugs are made from metal, silicone, or some other material and are inserted into the anus and left there to offer a constant stream of stimulation.
Many butt plugs include vibrating tips and even remote controls that your partner can use to change vibration speed and tempo.
Water-based lubricants are typically recommended for use with male sex toys because they do less harm and leave less residue once you’re finished. Silicon-based lubricants that are commonly found on condoms and other materials degrade over time.
There are some excellent water-based lubes on the sex toy market. They will facilitate whatever you’re trying to do with your toy without that filmy, slimy feel that some other lubricants leave around whenever you’re done.
Blow Job Toys
People with a penis who have been masturbating the same way for years should check out some of the new blow job toys for sale.
Modern blow job toys simulate getting a real blow job. The openings are shaped like a mouth and the design is meant to mirror the stimulation of swallowing or penetration.
They come in both reusable and disposable models, and several different mouth shapes. You can purchase electric models that require a plug but make masturbating easier. Some use batteries too.
The important thing with blow job toys is to choose one that fits your penis tightly to increase pleasure and make the feeling more realistic.
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