What is Sexual Orientation? The Kinsey Scale Truth
If you’ve ever questioned where you fit within sexual orientation, you’re not alone. In this video, I explain What is Sexual Orientation and why it can be more complex than labels. I also introduce the Kinsey Scale and explore what it can tell us about attraction.
Understanding What is Sexual Orientation can help you make sense of your own experiences without feeling pressured to choose a label. Sexual attraction can change over time, and not everyone experiences it in the same way. The Kinsey Scale offers one way to think about these differences.
I also share how embracing your authentic desires can reduce shame and support healthier relationships. Exploring your sexuality can be a personal process. There is no single experience that defines sexual orientation for everyone.
My hope is that you’ll leave with more clarity, confidence, and self-acceptance.
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
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Shifting blame is killing your intimacy. Here is the fix.
Shifting blame is quietly destroying emotional safety in so many relationships. When every difficult conversation turns into “you never listen” versus “you’re always criticizing,” the real problem isn’t who’s right: it’s the blame loop that’s keeping both of you stuck. In this video I break down why shifting blame (and the defensiveness that comes with it) destroys intimacy, how your nervous system reacts to perceived criticism, and the simple three-step shift that can stop conflict before it spirals. If this resonates with you, comment “I own this” below. I’d love to hear what part of the conversation you recognized in your own relationship.
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
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Validation Definition: Stop Basing Worth on Achievement
Validation definition: What does validation really mean? And why do so many people confuse it with approval or achievement?
In this episode, Dr. Amanda explores the validation definition and explains why we often tie our self-worth to success. As a result, achievement can start to feel like the only way to prove that we are enough.
However, validation is not about earning approval. Instead, it means recognizing and accepting your emotions, experiences, and worth without needing to achieve something first.
Dr. Amanda also explores how this mindset can affect relationships and intimacy. More importantly, you’ll learn how to build emotional safety and create connections that are not based on performance.
If this resonates with you, like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it.
About Life Coaching and Therapy
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
Have you ever been with someone you care about, only to suddenly feel anxiety without reason and become painfully aware of your body? Instead of enjoying the moment, your mind starts pointing out everything you’d rather change. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone.
In this video, I talk about why Anxiety Without Reason can show up in intimate moments, even when nothing is actually wrong. We’ll explore what’s happening in your nervous system, why telling yourself to “just love your body” usually isn’t the answer, and what actually helps you stay present.
I’ll also share a simple two-minute grounding exercise that I often recommend. It’s an easy way to move out of self-criticism and back into your body, so you can experience more connection, safety, and presence instead of Anxiety Without Reason.
About Life Coaching and Therapy
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
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A dead bedroom is rarely just about sex! In this video, I explain why desire often shuts down, why trying to “fix the sex” usually makes things worse, and how reconnecting with yourself is often the first step toward rebuilding intimacy with your partner.
About Life Coaching and Therapy
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
Negotiation Meaning for Your Marriage: STOP using Lazy Language
Healthy conflict brings couples closer. Criticism pushes them apart.
In this episode, I explain the negotiation meaning in relationships. You’ll learn why phrases like “you never” and “you always” create defensiveness. I also share a simple communication shift that helps couples feel more connected instead of trapped in the same arguments.
Many couples don’t realize that their words shape the outcome of every conversation. Absolute statements, blame, and assumptions make it harder to feel heard. They also increase defensiveness.
Effective negotiation isn’t about winning. It’s about creating emotional safety. When both partners feel safe, they can express their needs honestly and listen without preparing a counterattack.
Replace lazy language with specific observations and clear requests. This simple habit reduces conflict and encourages productive conversations. Over time, these small communication changes can strengthen trust, build empathy, and help you solve problems together instead of repeating the same fight.
About Life Coaching and Therapy
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
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Interrupting Meaning: How to Stop Your Partner’s Interruptions
Wondering about Interrupting Meaning and why it keeps happening in your relationship?
In this video, I explain Interrupting Meaning and share my simple Stop, Confirm, Ask technique to help you stop talking over each other and start feeling heard. Relationship tips on how to stop interrupting and start actively and reflectively listening.
About Life Coaching and Therapy
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
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Defensiveness: 2-Minute Script that ENDS Relationship Arguments
Defensiveness can turn even small disagreements into painful arguments.
In this episode, I explain why defensiveness shows up, how it damages emotional safety, and what you can do to stop it from turning every conversation into an argument.
If you’ve been stuck having the same fight over and over again, this episode is for you.
About Life Coaching and Therapy
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
Pros of AI in Your Relationship (It’s Not What You Think)
When we talk about the Pros of AI, we often focus on productivity and convenience, but what about our relationships?
In this episode, I’m exploring the Pros of AI through the lens of emotional connection, sharing what I’ve seen in my work with couples, the research behind AI and loneliness, and practical ways tools like ChatGPT can help you navigate difficult conversations with more clarity and compassion.
AI isn’t a replacement for real intimacy, but when used intentionally, it can become a powerful support for healthier communication and deeper connection.
What do you think are the biggest Pros of AI when it comes to relationships?
About Life Coaching and Therapy
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
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Conversation with Dr. Amanda Pasciucco and Kara Sundlun
If you’ve been in a long-term relationship, you probably know the feeling – that slow fade where the passion and intimacy just quiet down. Between work, kids, chores, sports, stress, and everything else life throws at us, it’s easy to wonder if this phase is just how it goes. Yet according to my interview with Kara Sundlun, of Kara’s Cures, we discussed that the spark isn’t gone for good. You can bring it back
This interview shared so many practical, realistic ideas that I wanted to pass them along. Here are the biggest takeaways:
Your Bedroom Matters More Than You Think
We discussed that one of the simplest things you can do is turn your bedroom back into a romantic space instead of a dumping ground. That means getting rid of clutter, moving the kids’ photos out, and making it feel like a sanctuary for the two of you.
I told Kara Sundlun that I literally ask couples to send pictures of their bedroom in the first session. The point? If it doesn’t look erotic or peaceful to you, how can it feel that way for you as a couple?
Stop Keeping Score – Give 100%
Many people show up thinking in terms of “I do 60%, you do 40%.” Think of it like“Relationship Math 101,” and that for real satisfaction, both people need to aim for their best, their 100% every day – even if some days that 100% is just a hug.
Little things like a flirty text, picking out something nice to wear for a night at home, or just remembering “we’re in a relationship today” and focusing on the other’s needs and wants can shift the energy.
Many of Us Have a Responsive Desire
A lot of people don’t just randomly feel turned on – many have a responsive desire. It needs a little spark first. That’s why reading a spicy book can suddenly make things more exciting. The key? Share it with your partner instead of keeping it private. Turning solo excitement into something you bring back to the relationship actually builds connection.
Ditch the Tired Date-Night Routine
Forget the “dinner then sex” plan when you’re both exhausted. I told Kara Sundlun that couples ought to be trying morning sex instead (testosterone is higher then) or afternoon delight when they can. I really believe in scheduling couple time.
Block out a few hours where the only goal is to be together. It doesn’t have to lead to sex. Sometimes it’s just cuddling, laughing, drawing on each other’s backs, or talking without distractions. The important part is protecting that time like it actually matters.
Stop Treating Each Other Like Roommates
Living together changes how our brains see our partner – they start feeling more like family than a lover. That’s normal, but you can fight it by:
Actually turning toward them when they want to show you something (even the 150th dog video)
Keeping up small physical touches throughout the day
Treating them with the same respect and interest you’d give at the beginning
Lower the Pressure
One of my favorite things discussed was to stop making sex feel like a performance. Don’t put the pressure on orgasm or “doing it right.” Sometimes, the win is just having those few uninterrupted hours together and feeling connected.
It Doesn’t Go Away With Age
Dr. Amanda was clear: you don’t age out of sex. Plenty of couples in their 60s, 70s, and beyond are having more and better intimacy than when they were younger – especially once the kids are out of the house and they have more time.
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
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What is Contempt in a Relationship? NOT Just Criticism
Contempt is one of the most damaging patterns I see in relationships. And the tricky part is that many couples don’t recognize it until they already feel disconnected. In this episode, I break down what contempt actually looks like. How small behaviors can slowly erode emotional safety, and what you can start doing to rebuild connection before it creates even more distance. If you’ve ever felt like you and your partner have become more like roommates than lovers, this video is for you.
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
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Emotional Neglect in Marriage – Defeated by 4 Micro Check-Ins
Emotional neglect in marriage does not always look dramatic. Instead, it often appears as a gradual feeling of being unseen, unheard, or emotionally disconnected. Over time, those small moments can create significant distance between partners.
In this episode, I explore the subtle behaviors that quietly weaken emotional connection. More importantly, I share four simple micro check-ins that can help couples reconnect. These practical strategies make it easier to communicate needs, feel supported, and strengthen emotional intimacy.
Additionally, we discuss ways to reconnect without turning every conversation into conflict. As a result, couples can build healthier communication habits and feel more understood. If you have been feeling overlooked or disconnected in your relationship, this episode offers practical tools and encouragement. Most importantly, I hope it reminds you that you are not alone.
About Life Coaching and Therapy
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
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How Small Is Too Small? Size Is NOT Why You Fall Short
If you’ve ever wondered How Small Is Too Small, you’re definitely not alone. In this episode, we talk honestly about penis size, performance anxiety, porn expectations, and what actually matters when it comes to great sex and real connection. We get into the research, confidence, foreplay, emotional safety, and why technique and communication matter so much more than most people think.
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
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What is 69? It Doesn’t Mean Just Physical Pleasure
What is 69? Many people see the 69 position as purely physical. However, for many couples, it can also feel playful, intimate, and deeply connected.
In this episode, I explain why that happens. I also talk about how reciprocity and vulnerability can help build trust between partners. In addition, we explore why communication plays such an important role in intimacy.
We also discuss ways to make the experience feel more comfortable and less pressured. Instead of focusing on perfection, the goal becomes connection and mutual enjoyment.
If you’re curious about exploring intimacy in a more open, connected, and relaxed way, this conversation may help you feel more confident and understood.
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.
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Why Your Sexless Relationship Isn’t From Parenting
If you’re in a sexless relationship, you’re not alone. In this episode, we explore why intimacy and desire can slowly fade, even in loving relationships. Often, the cause is emotional safety, stress, disconnection, or nervous system patterns rather than a lack of love.
You’ll also learn the common signs of a sexless relationship and the hidden patterns that keep couples stuck. In addition, we share simple ways to rebuild emotional and physical connection over time. If your relationship has started to feel more like roommates than partners, this conversation can help you better understand why and what may help you reconnect.
Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!
Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.
Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.
LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.
Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life atWhat We Do.