How Much Masturbation is Too Much?

If you’re wondering, ‘how much masturbation is too much’ this may help! Start by saying there’s no masturbation rule. Frequency, inspiration, place, and other factors can be unique for each person. One person might enjoy masturbating only on weekends when they are relaxed and not stressed about their responsibilities, whereas another person might prefer doing it every night before going to sleep.

However, our preferences are put aside if a person starts masturbating too much, and it starts impacting other areas of their lives, including romantic relationships and friendships. If you’re unable to focus at work because you’re thinking about your desire to masturbate, it’s recommended to take a closer look at when these urges appear and what they replace. For such an analysis, it’s best to talk to your therapist openly to connect the dots and find a way to delight in masturbation without it taking a toll on other things that matter to you.

Why Do We Masturbate? 

For most of us, our first masturbation experiences occurred in puberty. That is when we start noticing this desire to please ourselves on a physical level. Then, as we grow older, our reasons for masturbating can be affected by our religious beliefs, family upbringing, peer pressure, exposure to culture, stress, and so on. 

We masturbate for different reasons. These reasons can be pleasure, tension release, fun, enjoyment, and learning more about one’s sexuality. In other words, if you know what excites you, it will be easier to achieve it with your sexual partner. Another reason that is often ignored is being able to fall asleep after masturbation. An orgasm can help you fall asleep quicker because it helps you release the tension you have accumulated in your body. 

There are also different ways of masturbating. Some people will enjoy masturbating with their partners as part of foreplay, while others will prefer to be alone to truly experience that level of pleasure. You may prefer to masturbate while watching something sexually exciting on screen, or you can close your eyes and imagine scenes. For most people, there is neither one nor the other option.

Is Masturbation Harmful? 

Typically, there are no consequences for people who masturbate often. In some cases, men will report swelling of the penis or chafing skin in both men and women if their masturbation is a bit rough. None of these are permanent, and they usually go away in a matter of a few days.

Other factors determine the effects of masturbation on your relationship. Masturbate because your partner isn’t pleasing you sexually. Discuss it with them and find a solution. It is fantastic if you do solo sex because you feel more connected to your partner and thus yourself. Masturbation will rarely be the only reason for an issue in your life; it will instead be a symptom of a more underlying problem. 

For example, if you’re under a lot of stress and feel like you can’t keep up with your boss’ expectations, you might use masturbation as a form to release tension and survive a stressful day. This might lead to you going to the bathroom several times a day, impacting your productivity and putting you in conflict with your colleagues and supervisor. 

The consequences of masturbation are not direct, so it’s difficult to say precisely how much masturbation is too much or when it’s time to start worrying. That is why it’s best to bring this topic up with your therapist and see if it’s time for a different approach to masturbation.

Myths About Masterbation

When we talk about what’s too much in terms of masturbation, it’s important to address myths. Believing everything you read or hear about masturbation may limit your enjoyment or force you to make bad decisions. 

 

1.Too Much of It Causes Erectile Dysfunction

The inability to achieve or sustain an erection during sexual activity is referred to as erectile dysfunction. Masturbating is not one of many causes of sexual dysfunction. In actuality, frequent masturbation causes you to grow accustomed to your own touch or a particular type of sensation. You can find it even challenging to experience orgasms with your partner. 

 

2.Masturbation Is Not Good For Your Health

Many scientists believe there are health benefits to masturbating. A couple of the health advantages include enhanced focus and restful sleep. Because it causes your body to release endorphins, also known as feel-good hormones, masturbation helps to relieve headaches and stress. In addition, regular masturbation guarantees men’s increased levels of health and youthful appearance.  

Masturbation provides certain advantages for women’s sexual health, such as less pain during sex. This is brought on by the way endorphins, which lessen pain perception, interact with brain receptors. Masturbation can also possibly lessen vaginal dryness. 

 

3.People in Relationships Don’t Engage

Masturbation is a healthy sexual practice you can do to satisfy your urges, whether you’re single or in a relationship. Many research studies have indicated that both men and women engage in the habit of masturbating and that this is not impacted by their relationship status.

Wrap Up

Speaking about masturbation might cause embarrassment, remorse, or shame in some people. No need to feel negative about masturbating—it’s normal and good.

Masturbation won’t result in blindness or negatively impact one’s bodily or emotional well-being when it is done in balance. Masturbation frequently has more positive health impacts than negative ones. The majority of the time, masturbation is only a concern when it starts to negatively impact one’s relationships with friends, family, and romantic partners.

In situations in which you feel that masturbation is impacting other areas of your life, we advise you to consult a medical expert, particularly a sex therapist, to learn better tools to release tension or have fun.

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