Is It a Sin to Think About Your Husband Sexually? Spouses + Desire

 

Is it a sin to think about your husband sexually?
If you’ve ever wrestled with that question, you’re not alone. Many people of faith wonder where the line lies between sacred desire and sinful thought—especially when those desires are about their own spouse.

Maybe you’ve felt guilt, confusion, or even shame just for having those thoughts. But is it really a sin to think about your husband sexually, even in the context of marriage? That’s exactly what we’re unpacking in today’s video.

As a licensed sex therapist and the founder of Life Coaching and Therapy, I’ve worked with thousands of clients who struggle with sexual shame in committed relationships. They ask, “Is it a sin to feel turned on by my partner? To fantasize? To want more intimacy?”
The truth is, your sexual thoughts about your husband—or wife—aren’t inherently sinful. In fact, they can be deeply connective and emotionally nourishing.

In this episode, I’m diving into the real, raw, and sometimes awkward intersection of faith, desire, and intimacy. You’ll get clarity on whether it’s a sin to think about your husband sexually. And you might be surprised at how freeing the answer can be.

Because when we break down the mixed messages from religion, culture, and upbringing, we begin to see that sexual thoughts in marriage can be not only natural, but holy.

Let’s talk about why desire doesn’t have to be dirty. And how embracing it might be the most sacred thing you do.

 

 

 

About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

<span style=”font-weight: 400;”>Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.