Riggers’ Guide to Tying the Perfect Shibari Knots

 

Do you want to improve your ability to tie shibari knots? If so, you have landed at the right place!

This guide covers three of the most popular shibari knots—the Somerville bowline knot, the square knot, and the double column tie. We’ll discuss each knot, its special attributes, and why it might be the best option in a particular situation.

 

A Secure Foundation: The Somerville Bowline Knot

The Somerville bowline knot is effective and secure for creating a loop at the end of a rope. It often serves as the foundation of shibari knots, offering a strong base for the rest of the tie.

To tie a Somerville bowline knot, start by making a small loop in the rope and slipping the working end through the loop. Position the working end below the rope’s standing portion and wrap it around. Insert the working end into the loop again and tighten the knot.

The stability and strength of the Somerville bowline make it ideal for ensuring your partner’s safety during a tie. It won’t slip or come undone even under extreme pressure.

 

A Versatile Option: The Square Knot

The square knot has many uses in shibari and is easy to tie. It is often used to tie two ropes together or to tighten a rope to hold a tie.

To form a square knot, cross the working end of one rope over the standing end of the second rope. Then, tie the working end of the other rope over the first rope’s standing portion. Lastly, pull the two working ends together to tighten the knot.

The simplicity of the square knot makes it a common choice for riggers learning shibari. Additionally, its versatility allows it to be used in various tying situations, making it a go-to knot for riggers who want to be ready for anything. Tie it securely to prevent it from collapsing into the limb of the person you are tying. If unsure, use the Somerville bowline instead.

 

The Double Column Tie: An Innovative Tie

The double column tie is often used by shibari practitioners to tie a partner’s wrists or ankles together. It is a dynamic and striking knot. The end result is definitely worth the extra practice it takes to master this more complicated knot.

To tie a double column tie, create a loop in the rope and place it over the desired body part (such as a wrist). Raise the working end over the standing end of the rope and tuck it through the loop. Re-cross the working end over and wrap it around the standing portion of the rope. Insert the working end into the loop again and tighten the knot.

The double column tie can turn a plain tie into a piece of art. It’s a fantastic option for riggers who want to add flair to their work and produce a scene with impact.

 

Choose the Appropriate Shibari Knots for Your Current Situation

In conclusion, which knot should you use in your next shibari scene? It depends on the tying situation and your unique style. Practice these knots to improve your skills and enhance your shibari experience.

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