Riggers’ Guide to Tying the Perfect Shibari Knots

 

Do you want to improve your ability to tie shibari knots? If so, you have landed at the right place!

Three of the most popular shibari knots—the Somerville bowline knot, the square knot, and the double column tie—are covered in this guide.

We’ll discuss each shibari knot and its special attributes and discuss why it might be the best option in a particular situation.

A Secure Foundation: The Somerville Bowline Knot

An effective and secure knot for creating a loop at the end of a rope is the Somerville bowline. It frequently serves as the foundation of shibari knots. Meaning, it offers a strong base upon which the rest of the tie may be constructed.

Making a little loop in the rope and slipping the working end through the loop are the first steps in tying a Somerville bowline knot. So, the working end should then be positioned below the rope’s standing portion and wrapped around it. The working end should then be inserted into the loop once more, and the knot should be tightened.

The stability and strength of the Somerville bowline distinguish it from other knots. Meaning, it is the ideal option for any rigger. If you want to guarantee their partner’s safety during a tie because it won’t slip or come undone even under extreme pressure.

A Versatile Option: The Square Knot

In shibari, there are many uses for the square knot, which is an easy and straightforward knot. It is frequently employed to tie two ropes together or to tighten a rope to hold a tie.

Take the working end of one rope and cross it over the standing end of the second rope to form a square knot. Next, take the working end of the other rope and tie it over the first rope’s standing portion. To tighten the knot, lastly, pull the two working ends together.

For riggers who are just learning shibari, the square knot is a common option due to its simplicity. Additionally, it is a flexible knot that can be applied in a variety of tying situations, making it a go-to knot for riggers who want to be ready for everything.

Make sure to tie it securely to prevent it from collapsing into the limb of the person you are trying to reach. If you are not confident in your square knot, use the somerville bowline.

The Double Column Tie: An Innovative Tie

Shibari practitioners frequently tie a partner’s wrists or ankles together using the double column tie, a dynamic and striking knot. The end product is definitely worth the extra practice it takes to master this more complicated knot.

Start by creating a loop in the rope and placing it over the desired body portion to knot a double column tie (such as a wrist). The working end should then be raised over the standing end of the rope and tucked through the loop.

This working end should then be re-crossed over and wrapped around the standing portion of the rope. The working end should then be inserted into the loop once more, and the knot should be tightened.

The double column tie is an eye-catching knot that may turn a plain tie into a piece of art. It’s a fantastic option for riggers who want to add a little flair to their work and produce a scene with impact.

Choose the Appropriate Shibari Knots for your Current Situation

In conclusion, which knot ought to be used in your subsequent shibari scene? It really depends on the tying situation and your unique style.

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