Sex and Submission
Do you like to combine sex and submission? You’re not the only one! Sex and submission is a perfectly normal fantasy.
There are many reasons we crave sexual submission.
Submission is an act of trust. It is turning over your body and your well-being into another’s care.
Sexual submission can be thrilling and empowering.
When we are talking about kinky sex, being submissive is an honored role.
Submission during sex means trusting another enough to temporarily relinquish control and be guided on a journey.
To get started in the games of domination and submission it is best to do it with your partner or with someone you have total confidence in and trust. e Be very clear that it is only a game.
Are You Willing to Submit?
This is the first question you have to ask yourself if you want to experience the game of domination.
If your erotic fantasy is to have your partner dominate you and make love to you by force, I encourage you to put it into practice.
And, why not? Maybe your partner likes to be submissive too!
You just have to ask! Communicate!
Pleasure or Pain?
The games of domination and submission are usually related to bondage, ties and spanking, and the roles of master and slave. Use your creativity!
The only rule is to do it with respect and self-control. You don’t really want to be hurt and you don’t want to hurt your partner. .
Control Your Role
When you are in the game of sex and submission, sometimes you will have to play the role as the dominant and other times as the submissive partner.
In both roles you have to feel comfortable and know what limits are in advance.
If you are exercising as a mistress, make sure your partner is doing well and enjoying the game.
When it is the other way around, stop and speak clearly if you do not like something or feel that your partner is overreacting.
But, above all, get into the role and have fun.
Pretending to be someone else can help you feel much sexier and uninhibited.
Only in the Bedroom
Domination or submission games could get you hooked so much that you end up getting too much into your role even out of bed.
The game can take place during a dinner, in an exchange of messages, or even in the gym!
As soon as someone says stop, you immediately stop and get out of sex and submission.
CONSENT is key! Everyone has to be engaged and interested.
My motto is a DEEP YES is consent. I don’t want anything other than a HELL YES to a moment…including sex and submission!
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