Function of Non verbal Communication

Function of Non verbal Communication Explained Simply

 

The function of non verbal communication plays a critical role in how humans build trust, express emotion, and create connection. Why does your body often speak louder than your words? In this video, I break down the function of non verbal communication in adult relationships and explain why many popular body-language myths miss the mark. These signals shape how we feel understood, safe, or emotionally distant, often before a single word is processed.

Using real research, I explain how the function of non verbal communication shows up through posture, tone of voice, eye contact, pauses, sighs, and facial expressions. These cues influence everything from emotional intimacy to professional interactions, operating largely outside conscious awareness while still guiding perception, attraction, and trust.

You’ll also learn why context matters more than isolated gestures, and how the function of non verbal communication works alongside spoken language rather than replacing it. Whether you’re navigating romantic relationships, conflict, or workplace conversations, understanding this function can help you communicate more clearly, respond with greater empathy, and build stronger, more authentic connections in everyday adult interactions.

 

 

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Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

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Panromantic Definition

Panromantic Definition: Love, Attraction, and Identity

 

This video explores panromantic orientation and what it really means in everyday life. Panromanticism refers to experiencing romantic attraction to people regardless of their gender identity. For many people, this means their emotional and romantic connection is guided by the person themselves, not by categories or labels.

To better understand panromanticism, it helps to compare it with related orientations. Biromantic attraction often involves romantic feelings toward two genders, while alloromantic describes people who experience romantic attraction in general. Panromantic orientation differs because gender is not a determining factor in who someone may fall in love with. The focus remains on emotional chemistry, values, and connection.

Throughout the video, we draw from current research and lived experiences to ground the conversation. These perspectives help clarify common misconceptions, such as the idea that panromanticism is “confusion” or a lack of preference. In reality, it reflects a clear and consistent way of relating to others romantically.

Romantic orientation can shape how people approach relationships, desire, and emotional intimacy. For panromantic individuals, attraction may unfold slowly and deepen through shared experiences rather than predefined expectations. This can influence how relationships are formed, maintained, and communicated over time.

These romantic lenses can also affect long-term decisions, including partnership structures and family-building. Understanding one’s romantic orientation can help individuals and couples navigate boundaries, expectations, and compatibility with greater clarity.

If you have ever felt that connection matters more than categories, this video offers language and insight to explore that experience. It provides a thoughtful starting point for understanding panromantic identity and how it fits into the broader spectrum of romantic attraction.

 

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

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Biromantic Definition

Biromantic Definition: When Love Isn’t About Gender

 

In this video, I explore the biromantic definition in a clear and grounded way. First, I explain what biromantic means and how it shows up in everyday life. Then, I look at how it differs from sexual orientation. While sexuality focuses on physical desire, biromantic attraction centers on emotional and romantic connection.

Because of this difference, many people experience romantic pulls beyond gender. However, they may not have language for it at first. For example, someone might notice deep affection, closeness, or longing without sexual attraction being central. Over time, this realization can bring relief and self-understanding.

Backed by research and clinical insight, this video goes beyond a simple definition. Instead, it encourages curiosity and reflection. Ultimately, it’s an invitation to approach your heart with more clarity and less judgment. So, feel free to share your thoughts in the comments. Meanwhile, stay tuned as we continue exploring the full spectrum of romance, identity, and human connection.

 

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

How to Stop an Anxiety Attack

How to Stop an Anxiety Attack (in Relationships or Sex)

 

Anxiety can appear right in the middle of intimacy or connection. It isn’t random. Instead, it’s your nervous system responding to vulnerability, past experiences, or fear of being seen and touched. Because of this, anxiety often shows up when emotional or physical closeness increases. In this video, I explain why anxiety attacks happen in relationships or during sex. I also share how to stop the spiral in the moment. Finally, you’ll learn simple ways to feel grounded and safe again with your partner.

This isn’t about forcing calm or pushing through discomfort. Rather, it’s about listening to your body and slowing things down. By doing this, you can stay connected instead of shutting down or dissociating. You’ll gain practical tools you can use immediately, even mid-moment. These tools help you regain control and feel safer, without shame or pressure.

If this feels familiar, you’re not broken. More importantly, you’re not alone. This conversation can be a powerful first step toward feeling more present, secure, and deeply connected in your relationships, with compassion and clarity.

 

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

What Is A Lavender Relationship?

What Is A Lavender Relationship?

 

In this article, we explore what is a lavender relationship, where the term originated, and why it still exists today. More importantly, we look at the emotional cost it often carries. While these relationships are sometimes misunderstood, they have deep historical and social roots.

Historically, lavender relationships emerged as a form of protection. For example, in old Hollywood, public image often determined survival. As a result, many people entered marriages that hid their true identities. These unions were not always loveless. However, they were rarely free.

Over time, the concept has evolved. Today, what is a lavender relationship looks different, yet the pressure remains. In many cases, social expectations around marriage, sexuality, or family still push people toward silent compromises. Consequently, authenticity can become secondary to safety or stability.

Additionally, lavender relationships often involve unspoken agreements. While they may appear functional from the outside, they can carry loneliness underneath. Therefore, understanding what is a lavender relationship requires empathy rather than judgment.

Ultimately, this topic invites reflection. By learning what is a lavender relationship, we can better recognize hidden dynamics in partnerships. More importantly, we can question how society defines love, truth, and belonging today.

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

Define Interpersonal Relationships

Define Interpersonal Relationships: A Therapist Explains

 

To define interpersonal relationships is really to understand how we connect with others beneath the surface. Have you ever noticed how a single conversation can suddenly shift everything?

In this video, Dr. Amanda Pasciucco breaks down how to define interpersonal dynamics through a trauma-informed lens, showing how vulnerability, emotional safety, and unresolved experiences shape the way we relate. You’ll learn why some relationships grow stronger while others slowly fall apart, and how more intentional communication can change the way you connect with the people closest to you. Stay until the end for insights you can start using right away.

This episode also goes deeper into defining interpersonal patterns by looking at nervous system responses, attachment styles, and boundaries that quietly influence our interactions. You’ll see how old wounds show up in present-day relationships, why conflict can feel so intense, and how trust and safety are built through repair and consistency.

Using real-life examples from friendships, family dynamics, and romantic relationships, Dr. Pasciucco makes complex ideas feel relatable—helping you notice your patterns without judgment and choose connection with awareness instead of habit.

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

Triggers Meaning

Understanding Emotional Triggers Meaning

 

Understanding trigger meaning is essential for building healthier relationships and deeper intimacy. Emotional triggers often activate during moments of closeness because intimacy lowers our defenses. When that happens, unresolved experiences, unmet needs, or previously crossed boundaries can surface automatically.

A trigger is not a flaw. The true trigger meaning lies in protection. Your nervous system learned, at some point, that a certain tone, behavior, or situation was unsafe. Even if the present moment isn’t dangerous, the body reacts as if it is. This is why triggers feel intense, fast, and sometimes confusing.

In relationships, trigger meaning often connects to attachment wounds—fear of abandonment, fear of being controlled, or fear of not being enough. During intimacy, these fears can show up as anger, numbness, withdrawal, or people-pleasing. None of these responses mean something is “wrong” with you; they mean something inside you needs attention.

Rather than fighting triggers, learning their meaning allows you to slow down and get curious. What boundary is being crossed? Also what need is unmet? What part of you feels unseen or unsafe? When you understand trigger meaning through this lens, triggers become guides instead of obstacles.

Healing doesn’t come from suppressing emotional reactions—it comes from listening to them with compassion. As you build awareness, your nervous system learns that the present is different from the past. Over time, triggers lose their intensity, emotional safety increases, and connection becomes more authentic and regulated.

 

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

What Is Passionate Sex?

What Is Passionate Sex? Explained by a Sex Therapist

 

What is passionate sex, really? It’s not just sparks or perfect chemistry that magically shows up on its own. Passionate sex is something you build through intention, presence, and staying genuinely curious about the person you’re with.

From a sex therapist’s point of view, passionate sex isn’t about performance or doing everything “right.” It’s about connection. It’s the kind of intimacy where both people feel wanted, seen, and emotionally close, not just physically touching.

In this video, we talk about what passionate sex looks like once the honeymoon phase fades. A lot of couples believe desire should always be spontaneous, but that idea can actually make intimacy harder over time. Planning sex doesn’t mean it’s cold or forced. For many couples, it creates anticipation, safety, and space to relax into pleasure. When you know time is set aside for connection, desire often follows.

If you’ve been asking yourself what is passionate sex and wondering if it’s something you can get back, the answer is yes. Passion doesn’t usually disappear, it gets buried under routine, exhaustion, or unspoken tension. With the right conversations and a little guidance, desire can come back in a way that actually feels deeper and more real.

This video is an invitation to rethink intimacy, let go of unrealistic expectations, and reconnect in a way that feels genuinely alive again.

 

 

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

Marriage Definition

What if the way you define marriage is quietly holding your relationship back?

So many couples walk into marriage carrying ideas they never consciously chose—beliefs inherited from family, culture, past partners, or even movies. And over time, those unspoken expectations start shaping everything: how you communicate, how you support each other, how you navigate conflict, and how you show up when things feel overwhelming.

In this episode, we’ll dig into why routine conversations can start feeling like negotiations instead of teamwork, why intimacy can shift even when the love is still there, and how mismatched expectations slowly create distance without either partner noticing.

We’ll talk about redefining marriage in a way that feels intentional, one that honors personal growth, emotional safety, and the evolving needs of both people on a deeper level.

If you’re ready to rethink connection, deepen intimacy, and co-create a relationship that grows with you instead of stagnates, this video is your starting place for real, meaningful, lasting change.

 

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

Cuddlist

Cuddlist: The Power of Touch Therapy

 

Ever wondered what really happens in a Cuddlist session? In this video, we break down each step of a first cuddle therapy experience. You’ll see the consent talk, the grounding exercises, and the safe cuddle positions that help settle your nervous system. Many people try cuddle therapy to ease loneliness or support attachment healing. A trained Cuddlist can offer comforting touch without pressure or expectations.

We also explore the science behind supportive, non-sexual touch. It lowers stress hormones and boosts oxytocin. It helps you feel present, calm, and connected. You’ll also learn how boundaries work in a session. Practitioners follow clear rules to keep emotional and physical safety steady. This structure helps you relax and trust the process.

If you’re curious or a bit nervous, this video can guide you. It explains what to expect before you begin. You’ll also get simple tips on how to prepare for your appointment. During the session, you’ll learn how to share your needs in an easy, direct way. Afterward, we show how to integrate the experience so you get the most out of touch therapy.

 

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

AI Partner

AI Partner: Is Digital Companionship a Threat to Love?

 

Wondering how an AI partner can shape real relationships? This video breaks down what AI companionship actually feels like, how it affects monogamy, and the key things to consider before getting involved. We look at why AI can feel emotionally safer, how its constant validation can create a powerful pull, and why some people find themselves opening up more to digital intimacy than to their actual partner.

We’ll explore the illusion of perfect compatibility, the comfort of having a companion who never argues back, and how that can both soothe and complicate a real-world relationship. We’ll also discuss privacy concerns, data usage, emotional dependency, and the ethical gray zones around forming deep bonds with algorithm-driven systems.

From unexpected benefits, like improved communication and reduced emotional pressure, to real risks like emotional displacement, secrecy, and impact on trust, this video unpacks the full picture. If you’re curious about where digital connection meets human love, and how AI may reshape the way we attach, desire, and commit, this one’s for you. Subscribe for more insight.

 

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

Problems With Communication

Problems with communication can appear even in strong relationships, and they often make partners feel like they’re speaking different languages. When these problems with communication show up, simple moments can turn tense. Both people may walk away feeling unheard. However, this experience is far more common than most couples realize.

In this episode, I explain why these problems with communication happen. Old emotional wounds, unresolved trauma, and daily distractions interfere with how partners talk and listen. Because of this, the tone of a conversation can shift quickly. Even stress or fatigue can make a harmless comment feel sharp or confusing.

I also share what helps repair these patterns. Small moments of validation matter the most. For example, pausing before reacting creates space for understanding. A quick “I hear you” softens defenses. Also, choosing to listen instead of assuming the worst builds trust again. These small but steady choices help couples reconnect and reduce misunderstandings.

If you want to address the problems with communication in your relationship, this episode gives you clear, practical steps. It shows how simple actions can move you toward a more honest and connected way of speaking, and listening, together.

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

Affairs in the Workplace

Affairs in the Workplace: Causes & Prevention

 

Work doesn’t just bring projects and deadlines; it can also spark emotional connections. These connections can put your personal relationships at risk. Affairs in the workplace often start subtly: through shared laughter, late nights collaborating, or leaning on a colleague for support. High-pressure environments, long hours, and close proximity make these connections feel more intimate than they really are. Emotional needs that aren’t met at home: like appreciation, understanding, or excitement, can increase the risk of affairs in the workplace.

Recognizing early warning signs is key. Secretive communication, excessive texting, or depending on a coworker for emotional support can indicate trouble. Preventive strategies include setting professional boundaries, keeping open communication with your partner, and prioritizing quality time outside work. Understanding the factors behind affairs in the workplace and taking proactive steps can strengthen trust and safeguard your bond. By staying aware, you can navigate workplace connections responsibly and reduce the risk of hidden emotional entanglements.

 

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

What Is Dark Romance?

What Is Dark Romance? Unveiled Secrets for Couples

 

Ever wondered why some love stories feel dangerously irresistible?
Dark romance isn’t just a genre—it’s a vibe.
It whispers through stories where love tangles with power. Desire brushes against danger. The heart learns to crave what should be untouchable.

It’s the magnetic pull toward characters who are both protector and threat. Devotion turns fierce, even possessive. The emotional stakes run deliciously high. These narratives explore the line between surrender and control, longing and fear, trust and risk. Lovers carry sharp edges, and intimacy feels earned, raw, and deeply consuming.

In this video, we dive into the allure of dark romance—why it captivates us, how it awakens our hidden fantasies, and what makes these stories linger beneath the skin. You’ll learn how to safely weave its intensity into your own relationship: through honest communication, boundaries, emotional depth, and a willingness to explore shared desires.

Dark romance thrives because it illuminates the truth we rarely admit—love isn’t always gentle. Sometimes, it’s wild… and we ache for the flame.

 

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

8 Subtle Signs You’re Attractive

8 Subtle Signs You’re Attractive

 

In this video, I reveal 8 subtle signs you’re attractive and more magnetic than you realize. Some of these signals come from the body language of others, like how they orient their torso toward you without thinking, or how they unconsciously mirror your movements and expressions. These reactions aren’t strategies—they’re reflexes sparked by interest.

You may also notice people suddenly becoming more talkative or quiet around you. Some get bolder, leaning in and asking personal questions; others grow flustered, stumbling over their words or avoiding eye contact because their pulse quickens. Even small gestures—like adjusting hair, clothes, or posture when you enter the room—can reveal that someone is trying to look their best under your gaze.

Attractiveness isn’t only about appearance. Sometimes people are drawn to your voice, your energy, your confidence, or simply the way you carry yourself. An attentive smile, intentional touch on the arm, or an excuse to stay near you often signals they enjoy your presence more than they know how to admit.

These subtle signs help you recognize your natural pull—and once you see them, you can begin to embrace it. When you understand the psychology of attraction, you boost your confidence in love, dating, and connection.

Whether you’re pursuing someone new or exploring your own charisma, these insights can help you step more boldly into your power. After all, you may be far more magnetic than you ever imagined.

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About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.