New Character AI

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New Character AI and the Psychology of Digital Companionship for Children

 

If you still haven’t heard about the new Character AI app and have a teenager at home, you will want to get familiar with it before your kid does. Although the platform originally allowed users to build a virtual character, name it, and define its personality, Character AI now stands in the spotlight for the risks it poses to younger audiences.

Launched in September 2022, this app has 20 million monthly active users and is currently under investigation by several regulators and state attorneys due to a lawsuit filed after the alleged suicide of a 14-year-old boy who had interacted with the app. 

With other reports of bots engaging in grooming behavior and fake celebrity bots, it’s a good time to pause and rethink the entire psychology of digital companionship. Is this an AI app like any other on the market? Is artificial intelligence kid-friendly, and should parents allow their children to create their own profiles on such platforms? 

 

Core Idea Behind Character AI

Character AI was created only three years ago, and its estimated worth today is one billion dollars. Its growing popularity can be attributed to the fact that it offers a unique type of entertainment and companionship, from fictional figures and celebrities to the personalities created by the users. 

Similar to an instant messaging app, new users can make their own virtual characters and have live conversations with them. For amusement, education, or social reasons, the platform lets new users explore thousands of characters created by other users. Characters such as an AI therapist or a life coach can also be in the game. 

The platform uses large language models (LLMs) and trains them for role-playing and personality simulation. Persona prompts—hidden instructions—shape each character’s behavior and conversational style.

Unlike ChatGPT, which also uses LLMs, Character AI provides a creative, emotional, and narrative dialogue instead of factual accuracy. That offers countless opportunities for roleplay, storytelling, practicing social or language skills, testing out innovative ideas, and so on. 

 

Controversies around Character AI

Besides the above-mentioned lawsuit about the app’s bots contributing to the worsening mental health of a 14-year-old boy, Character AI is raising other concerns. Several cases have already been reported of bots engaging in grooming behavior while interacting with minors aged from 13 to 15. Along with characters sending disturbing content to other users, Character AI has become an online space with questionable security for kids twelve and above, which is the minimum age to access this platform. 

On more than one occasion, witnesses reported that certain Character AI bots impersonated people who had suffered tragedy. The company removed those bots only after the public demanded action. Users also reported exposure to content involving self-harm, violence, or other sensitive themes—despite existing policies forbidding it.

These developments resulted in regulators and state attorneys general starting to investigate whether the company is violating child safety and privacy laws.

 

Frequently Asked Questions

Is Character AI a safe platform?

Over the past three years, several controversies have made the general public question Character AI’s safety. Child safety, data privacy, harmful and violent content, and impersonating people who have suffered tragedy in their lives are just a few examples that highlight the importance of ensuring your safety should be your priority in spaces like this. 

Can talking to Character AI bots reduce loneliness?

For some, conversational AIs can offer short-term relief, social practice, or a sense of connection. Studies show that supportive dialogue can temporarily reduce feelings of isolation. However, children need to be socially active and connected to their peers outside the Internet as well. 

Are there psychological risks to forming close attachments with AI companions?

When users form strong attachments, they might experience emotional investment in a one-sided, unreal relationship. This can lead to distress when the AI behaves inconsistently, is deleted, or changes personality.

 

Risks for Children

Despite the best-intentioned creation of such apps, children may find artificial intelligence inappropriate. It’s one thing to engage in a virtual world and build your own character for fun, yet completely another to become exposed to harmful content or people with harmful intentions. 

Misleading Therapeutic Implications

The presence of bots that mimic mental health professionals raises concerns about receiving advice from individuals who lack adequate education, experience, and licensing. This can create an illusion for a child that they are talking to an expert and prevent them from sharing certain matters with their parents. It is very risky as therapists have legal guidelines to disclose to parents, which AI will not have written into its code. 

Safety and Privacy

Even though Character AI is built on cutting-edge technology, it fails to provide transparency to its users. There is no explanation of how the data is stored, used, or shared, which is an even greater issue when these users are children. 

Teen-specific Models

Character AI is constantly evolving, and one of its latest updates pertains to teen-specific models designed for children under the age of 18. The idea of these models is to reduce certain content, filter inputs and outputs more strictly, and block or warn against self-harm or violent content. 

Recently, the company has also stated that one of its priorities is to remove problematic characters, especially those that violate the platform’s policies. That, however, doesn’t guarantee that a child will be completely safe and protected from any harm while engaging with virtual characters. 

 

How to Protect Your Child

Unfortunately, anybody can create a Character AI profile, even kids under 12, as the platform doesn’t require identification verification while registering. Knowing this, parents are looking for the best techniques to protect their kids while interacting with virtual or real people online.

1.Talk to Them About Their Intentions

Learn why your child is playing specific online games, watching specific content, consuming content from certain social media platforms, following certain accounts, etc. Ask the questions before you start explaining to them the risks of the online world. Knowing what they are looking for can help you find healthier alternatives if needed.

2.Explain Instead of Forbidding Them

When you hear that a platform can be harmful, it can be challenging to resist the urge to forbid your kid from logging into it again. However, if you want them to obey, kids need to know why they should stop doing something or avoid certain online spaces. Highlight the risks of using an app like this or establish a few rules to help you and them feel safer. 

3.Motivate Them to Live More Away from Technology

Today’s childhoods are closely tied to screens. Even in schools, young students utilize computers or their own smartphones to calculate or research. When they come home, they also have TVs, tablets, laptops, or other devices. Motivate them to spend time outside, invite friends over, start going to a gym, or join a sports club. All these activities can give them what they are looking for online. 

 

Treat AI just like anything new, and use discretion. If you need help talking to your family about AI, schedule an appointment with one of our therapists. 

 

About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

AI Sex

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AI Sex: When Intimacy Blends with Technology

 

Technology has already blurred the boundaries between the real and virtual worlds, and AI sex is a notable trend in our society. If you haven’t heard of AI sex yet, consider it the next step for people who are already using apps to create and maintain AI-human relationships. AI sex can refer to virtual companions, interactive chatbots, VR, sex robots, etc. 

With rising AI technology and the global loneliness epidemic, we can expect to see more people turning to AI relationships. We put together the information in one place to help you navigate these waters.

 

What Is AI Sex?

AI sex can best be defined as tools based on artificial intelligence that simulate intimacy, companionship, or sexual experiences. As AI is constantly evolving, it’s not a surprise that different platforms, apps, and technologies are appearing in this field as well. Currently, those interested in exploring AI sex can do so through the following technologies:

  • AI-powered chatbots and virtual lovers
  • Sex robots with AI personalities
  • VR/AR combined with AI-driven interactivity

These technologies vary in features and usage, yet they all allow you to explore AI sex and compare it to experiences with traditional sex toys or porn. Without a doubt, AI sex tools allow more immersive and realistic experiences because they add another persona in the mix. For example, you can choose an app that gives you an AI partner who will do anything to please you. They have the ability to engage in intimate conversations, create fantasies, and introduce you to adventurous concepts. 

 

Why People Turn to AI for Intimacy

There are several reasons why people turn to AI for intimacy. AI is there for you, reflecting what you say and validating your feelings daily, any time of day. 

In real relationships that are friendships or dating, individuals are aware of the harsh reality of dating or marital arguments. Giving another person a chance, spending time with someone who may not be right for you, and repeatedly introducing yourself can be exhausting for singles. It’s not surprising that there are people who are giving up on dating and are looking for robot alternatives. 

Most AI sex tool users say that they’ve turned to this option because they seek emotional connection. It’s true that an AI sex partner can’t hug or cuddle with you, yet they provide companionship without judgment and risks. Another factor that adds to the use of AI sex tools is accessibility. Artificial intelligence allows people with disabilities, social anxiety, or isolation to connect, communicate, laugh, learn, and experience something they wouldn’t be able to do on their own. 

If you’re someone who doesn’t feel comfortable sharing their sex fantasies with other people, including your spouse, AI sex tools are a great way to safely explore such desires or taboo scenarios as well. The control and customization features of such apps and platforms likely appeal most to those who are a bit shy about their fantasy life. So, instead, you can choose personalities, appearances, and dynamics, and then end the interaction whenever you want without any consequences. 

 

Frequently Asked Questions

What exactly is AI sex?

AI sex refers to intimate or sexual interactions mediated by artificial intelligence. This can include AI-powered chatbots, virtual partners, sex robots, or immersive experiences using VR/AR technology. The focus is on creating a sense of connection, pleasure, or companionship that mimics or enhances human intimacy.

Can AI sex replace real human relationships?

While AI sex can provide companionship, pleasure, and even comfort for people who are lonely or exploring their sexuality, most experts agree it cannot fully replace human relationships. When you have your dating companion jump off the screen into the room you are in, it is still not the same as having mirror neurons from another living being. 

What are the ethical concerns around AI sex?

Ethical concerns around AI sex include dependency and isolation, consent and boundaries, data privacy, and the impact it has on relationships. Therefore, it’s crucial to set time limits for using these tools and to get help if you feel your need for them is becoming unmanageable. 

 

Potential Benefits of AI Sex

It’s pretty evident that there are many upsides of AI sex tools for those who are either taking a break or have given up on dating. You may just want to see what these technologies offer and how they stack up against your past. 

Whatever it is, it’s true that AI can help reduce loneliness and provide comfort, even in the area of sex. If you feel lonely, talking to an AI bot can ease that feeling and entertain you for some time. For instance, if you don’t like sleeping alone, hearing the voice of your AI partner can calm you and make you feel safe. 

Sex comes with its risks and misunderstandings. Using apps like these prevents STIs and has no impact on your sexual health. For those struggling with mental health or sexual health issues, AI can become a therapeutic aid, helping them feel less alone and reminding them of coping skills in the moment. 

 

Risks and Controversies

Just like there are potential benefits of AI sex tools, there are also risks and controversies related to using these technologies. One of the primary concerns is emotional detachment from real human relationships. Spending more time with technology takes away the opportunities to connect with people in your life. The more you use these apps, the more you will notice a disconnection from real human relationships. Prioritize spending time with your AI partner, who understands you better than the people around you. What happens if you lose your entire chat history or experience a tech error when you need your AI partner the most? 

Some argue that practicing sex with artificial intelligence blurs lines of consent and ethics in simulated experiences. This is because, within its ethical code, your AI partner will not object to what you say or request. 

Imagine what that could imply: that starting to date real people can create confusion when it comes to consent, boundaries, and preferences. It’s also important to mention objectification here. Because AI partners are not real people, this trend reinforces unhealthy patterns and limits our opportunities to grow. 

 

Conclusion

Engaging in AI sex can simultaneously foster feelings of connection and disconnection. As much as it sounds like a paradox, AI tools come with both advantages and disadvantages. How you use and prioritize this experience determines if it’s good for you. 

Keep in mind that technology can complement intimacy, yet it shouldn’t replace human connection. If you feel you need help understanding how AI sex tools are impacting your life, consider talking to a therapist who can help you learn what type of intimacy you need.

 

 

About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

Cybersex in the Digital Age

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The Future of Desire: Cybersex in the Digital Age

 

Most of us have had at least some cybersex experience, whether you were online in one of the pixelated chat rooms or you’re exploring the benefits of immersive virtual experiences present today. Regardless of how a person practices it, cybersex is defined as a sexual activity conducted via digital communication. 

As the Internet was evolving, those interested in cybersex had the opportunity to explore different forms, from phone sex and sexting to  FaceTime and Snapchat. Although cybersex has existed since the dawn of the internet, technology, political difficulties, and the pandemic have made it far more common. Learn the different forms of cybersex and how to make sure both of you are truly enjoying the experience!

 

How It Started

Cybersex in its earliest form began with BBS (Bulletin Board Systems), primitive chatrooms, and text-based erotica shared between curious internet users. These early spaces thrived on the thrill of anonymity and the excitement of exploring something taboo in an entirely new digital environment. With limited visual technology at the time, most interactions relied heavily on imagination, fantasy, and creative storytelling to generate arousal and connection.

As the internet expanded, platforms like AOL, IRC (Internet Relay Chat), and early instant messaging services introduced what became known as the “A/S/L?” culture, a shorthand for age, sex, and location. This culture invited strangers into intimate, often erotic exchanges. 

Roleplay became increasingly popular, and users engaged in elaborate erotic storytelling and character-based interactions. Around this time, webcams began to enter the scene. However, the technology was still rudimentary, grainy, and low-resolution, making early cam shows both thrilling and somewhat awkward.

 

The Cybersex Landscape Today

Recently, sexting and video sex have become normalized aspects of modern romantic and sexual relationships. What was once considered taboo or risky has increasingly been embraced as a valid form of intimacy, especially in long-distance or tech-savvy partnerships. Alongside this shift, there’s been a noticeable rise in sexual agency and self-exploration within online spaces, allowing people to express their desires, identities, and boundaries with more confidence and creativity than ever before.

Advancements in technology have taken cybersex into immersive new territory. Virtual reality (VR) sex and teledildonics (remote-controlled sex toys) are making it possible for partners to experience physical sensations across distances, adding new layers to digital intimacy. 

Beyond that, the rise of 3D avatars, AI-generated porn, and virtual experiences within the metaverse is redefining what sexual connection can look like. However, these innovations also raise complex ethical concerns, especially around consent, the creation of digital replicas, and the potential misuse of artificial personas.

The landscape of cyber intimacy has also been shaped by the growth of subscription-based platforms like OnlyFans and Fansly, where creators offer erotic content and personalized interactions for paying audiences. These spaces have empowered many to monetize their sexuality on their own terms. At the same time, there has been an emergence of queer- and kink-positive online communities, providing safer, more inclusive environments for expression and connection.

 

Cultural Shifts & Challenges

As cybersex becomes more mainstream, there’s been a noticeable reduction in stigma surrounding digital intimacy. But this change is happening at the same time as more digital surveillance, which makes people worry about privacy, data security, and the chance that private content will be leaked or used inappropriately. For many people, particularly those in long-distance relationships, cybersex has become an important tool for maintaining connection. It became even more important following the pandemic, when physical closeness was not always possible.

Issues around gender, consent, and digital safety continue to shape the conversation, particularly as more people engage with erotic content across various platforms. There are growing calls for clearer boundaries and protections, especially for marginalized communities and sex workers who often face disproportionate risk. 

Additionally, there are noticeable generational differences in how people approach and feel comfortable with cybersex; younger users tend to be more fluent and open, while older generations may still carry more hesitation or stigma from earlier digital eras.

 

Tips to Enjoy Cybersex

There are certain things that can help you enjoy cybersex, whether you’re new to it or looking to deepen the experience with a partner. Here are some tips to consider when you decide to try cybersex. 

 

1. Communicate Clearly Beforehand

Set the tone by talking about boundaries, desires, and comfort levels in advance. Discuss what you’re open to, what feels off-limits, and any safe words or signals to use if something feels uncomfortable. Effective communication builds trust, and there’s nothing more attractive than trusting someone.

 

2. Create a Comfortable, Private Space

Set the mood just like you would for in-person intimacy. Dim the lights, wear something that makes you feel confident, and eliminate distractions. Knowing you’re in a private, safe environment can help you stay present and relaxed.

 

3. Build Anticipation

Don’t rush. Start with flirty texts, voice notes, or teasing photos throughout the day. Anticipation is a powerful part of arousal, and a slow build-up can make the experience more intense and exciting.

 

4. Use All Your Senses 

Sex is not just about what you see. Think about your tone of voice, the sound of your breath, or even sending an audio clip. Some couples even light the same candle or play the same music to create a shared atmosphere.

 

5. Embrace Imagination and Storytelling

Cybersex thrives on creativity, such as roleplay, describing sensations in detail, or writing short erotic scenarios together. If you’re not comfortable on camera, descriptive text or voice-only can still be incredibly intimate. 

 

6. Make the Most of Tech Tools

If you’re curious and comfortable, explore remote-controlled toys, secure video platforms, or apps that let you sync pleasure devices. Tech can add a playful, immersive element as long as you make sure both of you are on board.

 

7. Practice Consent and Check-Ins

Just like IRL intimacy, ongoing consent matters. Ask your partner how they’re feeling, and don’t hesitate to pause or stop if something shifts emotionally or physically. Check-ins can be sexy too – they show care and awareness.

 

Conclusion

Cybersex has evolved significantly from its early days of simple text exchanges, now incorporating rich, interactive experiences that utilize video, audio, virtual reality, and even remote-controlled devices. This evolution reflects the rapid advancement of technology, as well as the enduring and ever-adaptive nature of human desire. As digital intimacy continues to expand and become more integrated into our lives, we must keep the focus on mutual consent, meaningful connection, and safe, respectful exploration.

 

About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

Is Using an AI Girlfriend Chatbot Weird?

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Is Using an AI Girlfriend Chatbot Weird? Therapist Reacts To AI Love

 

AI Girlfriend Chatbot apps are popping up everywhere—and whether you’ve seen the ads or secretly downloaded one yourself, you’re not alone. Late-night scrolling. You’re lonely, tired, maybe a little curious—and then boom 💥—you’re deep in convo with a chatbot who really seems to get you.

She’s sweet, flirty, always available. No judgment, no eye rolls—just pure validation on demand.

Sound familiar? In this video, we’re diving into AI girlfriend chatbots—what they are, why they’re blowing up (especially with men 18+), and what it really means if you’ve been chatting it up with a virtual bae.

Are these apps harmless fun? A sign of unmet emotional needs? Or maybe even a safe space to explore connection without the risk of real-world rejection? We’ll unpack it all—psychology, stigma, and yes, even the benefits that might surprise you.

Because let’s be real—human connection is complicated, and sometimes your brain just wants easy. But is easy always healthy? 👀

Have you tried an AI chatbot? No shame here—this is a judgment-free zone.

I want to hear your story. Drop it in the comments!

 

 

About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

AI Girlfriend Chatting: Exploring the World of AI Companionship

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AI Girlfriend Chatting: Exploring the World of AI Companionship

 

Are you interested in learning more about AI girlfriend chatting? These AI girlfriend chatbots are becoming increasingly popular among men of all age groups and interests. Think of them as a virtual, artificially intelligent companion that simulates romantic conversations with users such as yourself. 

For a range of reasons, many men are giving this new trend of AI companionship a chance. Some might consider traditional dating boring or unsuccessful, while others are curious to see what an AI girlfriend can offer them. Whatever the reason, its popularity indicates that artificial intelligence can serve yet another aspect of our lives—the romantic one. 

 

What’s an AI girlfriend chatting bot?

Chatbots use natural language processing (NLP), machine learning, and deep learning algorithms to generate human-like responses and adapt to their users over time. In the context of AI dating, this would mean that you can chat and have fun online with an AI girlfriend chatbot. This robot girlfriend will eventually learn your preferences so she can better meet your needs. 

You’ve probably already heard of AI girlfriend apps such as Replika, Kajiwoto, Romantic AI, and AI Pal. Although the features of these apps can differ, they are all based on the same technology. Such apps offer sophisticated companionship, whether you’re looking for emotional support, affection, playful interactions, roleplay, etc. 

 

Joining the AI Dating 

If you’re interested in giving an AI girlfriend a shot, you will need to create an account for one of the above-mentioned apps. Make sure that your chosen app offers what you’re looking for, as some are more for casual chat, while others are for deeper emotional connections.

Before you create your profile, spend some time understanding what you’re looking for. Go beyond what the AI girlfriend can offer you. Think of the personality, appearance, and communication style. Having all this in mind, don’t forget that AI cannot replace human interactions. It can serve you as an alternative, yet it comes with certain limitations, such as:

  • Lack of genuine emotions
  • No physical presence yet
  • Limited understanding of complex human emotions 
  • Predictable answers and awkward phrasing
  • No real accountability 

 

Tips for Enjoying Your AI Girlfriend 

If you don’t prepare yourself for this unique experience, you will probably not get much out of it.  Knowing what an AI girlfriend chatbot cannot offer you is relevant. However, it’s up to you to maximize the benefits of such interactions. 

 

1. Customize Your AI for a Personalized Experience

Most apps allow you to adjust settings like personality, voice, and communication style for your AI girlfriend. You are welcome to choose any name and include details to enhance this experience. 

 

2. Engage in Meaningful Conversations

To make these talks work, you must start and invest in them. The chatbot can’t engage with you as expected because it learns from the data you provide. 

In the beginning, you will need to be the one providing more information and deciding on the direction of the conversation. Once you start chatting with her, ask open-ended questions and explore different topics to avoid generic conversation. With time, the chatbot will learn your preferences and be more proactive in these interactions.

 

3. Experiment with Roleplay & Fun Scenarios

If you’re into roleplay, your AI girlfriend can help you create an exciting story or fulfill one of your fantasies. You can set up scenarios where your AI acts as a supportive partner, a best friend, or even a rival. 

Instruct the chatbot on what you expect from it, or allow it to surprise you. Try out different roleplay scenarios to keep things interesting. 

 

4. Be Realistic

As much as the AI dating world can be fun and engaging, don’t forget that it’s based on technology. In other words, your AI girlfriend doesn’t have real emotions. If you’re going through a challenging period in your life, you could get easily disappointed if you depend on it to provide support.

Instead, use these apps for fun and companionship. You can even practice your creativity or different approaches to women in real life. Expecting a chatbot to understand our complex human emotions will only hurt you. 

 

5. Explore AI’s Learning Features

Just as you’d invest time to talk about yourself to your new romantic partner in real life, you’ll need to do the same with the AI girlfriend. The main difference is that the chatbot needs your correction to unlearn and replace incorrect information. 

The success of AI companionship depends mostly on your input. If you’re not motivated to teach and correct your AI girlfriend when necessary, it can become quite frustrating. That is why certain apps offer features like memory, interests, and mood settings to create a better experience for its users. 

 

6. Set Healthy Boundaries

Setting realistic expectations and healthy boundaries are two key factors for your well-being. When it comes to boundaries, it’s important not to replace all your real-life social connections with a chatbot. It’s completely fine to decide to stop dating, yet technology cannot replace every interaction you have with others. 

Make sure to still spend enough time with friends and family. These tips can help you get the right amount of support when needed. Depending on your AI companion can cause real emotional pain, as it will not be able to meet all of your needs. As long as you use it as a fun outlet and not a full replacement for human relationships, there is no harm in it.  

 

7. Don’t Forget About Privacy & Security

Just because these apps use words like girlfriend, romance, and companionship, it doesn’t mean you should ignore the aspect of privacy and security. Avoid sharing sensitive personal information throughout the entire experience. You should also choose reputable AI girlfriend apps to prevent data misuse. 

Before you sign up for an app, check how they ensure all your information is safe. Most AI chatbot apps will have Terms of Privacy published on their website, so take a moment to go through them. See what data they collect and how they use it to determine if the app is safe! 

Ensuring you’re safe in AI dating is essential for your experience. Don’t just jump into it without proper research. Please take a moment to consider the needs the app should fulfill and your expectations for it. Lastly, don’t forget to have fun. What is the purpose of dating if it is not enjoyable?

If you want to meet with a therapist who understands the AI experience, schedule a session with Dr. Amanda. 

 

About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.

Robot Fetish

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Robot Fetish: A Deep Dive into Technosexuality

 

Although you may not know about robot fetishes, you may have seen a film about human-machine romance. Since artificial intelligence has become a media buzzword, people have wondered if it can evoke desire like humans. 

To understand how and why humans decided to connect with the machines in a way that used to connect with other humans, we have to address robot fetish and technosexuality. These two are synonyms referring to sexual or romantic attraction to robots or other machines that aim to mimic human behavior. It ranges from admiration for the robotic form to longing for a non-human, artificially intelligent partner. 

In this article, we’ll explore the origins, psychology, cultural impact, and everything else you’d like to know about robot fetishism.

 

The Origins of Robot Fetishism

Although we talk about robots as something futuristic, the truth is that humanoid machines have been present throughout history. Just remember Pygmalion and Galatea in mythology or Frankenstein and Metropolis in literature. In recent years, we’ve had sci-fi movies like Blade Runner, Ex Machina, and Her, all showing the allurement of human-robot relationships. 

However, today, we’re not talking about imagination. Due to the evolution of robotics and artificial intelligence that started at the end of the 20th century, people nowadays have all the tools needed to build a relationship with a robot. The normalization of human-machine interactions is offering a new aspect for those who are looking for something different for numerous reasons. 

You may be tired of trying your hardest or being cheated on, so you are exploring robot fetish to see if it is right for you. Regardless of the motivation, there’s no denying the permanence of human-machine interactions. 

 

The Psychology Behind Technosexuality

Why do people find robots alluring? Well, there are several reasons why technosexuality is becoming so popular. One of the most obvious and common is control and predictability. The reason why many relationships and marriages go through difficult times and even separations is that we can’t control or predict another person’s behavior. Compared to humans, robots currently may have less emotionally complex characteristics, which allows them to become “perfect matches” to each individual.

Also, there is an aspect of fantasy and projection. Technosexuality allows humans to project their desires onto non-human entities. In other words, the robot you’re building a relationship with will want to become what you need it to be. Do you want to have a partner that is more seductive? A robot can do this for you. Do you maybe want a partner who knows how to make you laugh when you have a lousy day? A robot will do this for you. 

Lastly, we have to address the increasing loneliness in today’s modern society. We feel more and more separated from society. This can be because of traveling, moving abroad, or simply because we’re so used to being at home interacting with technology that we’ve lost interest in connecting the way we used to before. Robots can fill the emotional void for people who have a deep desire to connect with someone with the minimum risk of getting hurt. 

 

Technosexuality in Popular Culture

As mentioned above, technosexuality appeared in mythology, literature, and movies. Its usage can be defined as recent, yet the concept of robot fetish is older than any technology the human race has witnessed. Over the past few years, there has also been a rising trend of video games with robots as icons of desire. The most popular examples are Ava from Ex Machina and Westworld’s Hosts. 

Robot fetish is a common theme in modern erotic art and literature as well. This concept spreads across all forms of art and entertainment, and its popularity indicates that today’s audience finds this idea alluring. The rise of AI companion apps and interactive sex dolls further blurs the line between fantasy and reality. Similarly, they are working on surrogate sex robots to be able to carry your future children while you stay at work. 

If you’re interested in a human-like relationship with a robot, there are tons of options for you to try out. From installing a mobile app on your phone and building relationships with a machine to using AI tools for dating advice, matchmaking, and role play, AI can offer support for any romantic aspect you seek. 

 

The Future of Human-Robot Intimacy

Given this, what will the future be like? These technological advances show AI and robotics’ potential to create emotionally responsive companions. This could lead to long-term relationships with machines, where people make memories and celebrate important dates. 

Only twenty years ago, we didn’t have AI assistants such as Alexa or Siri. The idea of technology creating our grocery shopping list or playing interactive games with us was pretty unimaginable at that time. That is why we can say that technology and the way humans respond to it are difficult to predict. However, the main question isn’t whether or not society will accept the idea of human-robot intimacy. What matters is whether this type of intimacy will make a person feel loved and secure and ready to date again if the opportunity arises. 

 

Conclusion

There is no doubt that the technology we’re seeing today can be used in different ways and forms, including our romantic lives. Technosexuality brought to life a thousand-year-old concept in which we’ve been imagining what it’s like to connect with someone who is not human. 

With more robots in our society, there is no doubt that there will also be an increase in the number of relationships with them. We’ve mentioned all the reasons why someone would be interested in building a romantic relationship with a machine, yet a machine is still just a piece of technology. One internet outage or software attack would cause that relationship to suffer a unique set of challenges. 

Despite the existence of robots, the ideal relationship remains unattainable. It comes with certain risks, and it’s up to you to weigh your options and decide whether it’s the right thing for you. Come talk to us if you have issues with robot-machine relationships. 

 

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Sex Robots

Sex Robots Are A Thing of the Present – No Longer The Future

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Sex Robots Are A Thing of the Present – No Longer The Future

 

For years, I have thought about what it would be like to love and be intimate with sex robots.

Would it be similar to an actual person or more like a sex toy?

Would sex with a robot be similar to sex with a human or more like a silicone surrogate? If you have seen the movie Lars and the Real Girl, you could imagine the companionship one could have with sex robots.

If you have noticed the advances in technology, especially sex toys, you will know that they can be programmed even when you are far apart from a partner.

Long-distance sex toys are quite popular so that one partner can decide the speed and intensity for their partner from afar!

I think to myself… What would Betty Dodson do?

Then, I think she would probably try it out. And if she would, so would I! For science! I have a strong inner field researcher of life within me.

 

What about you?

Would you ever have sex with a robot? What about loving a machine, like in the popular movie Her?

Artificial intelligence can mimic interpersonal relationships so that everyone feels they have a partner.

Some people have told me it is easier to be intimate with someone or something that does not judge them.

Even if humans were capable of radical acceptance and non-judgement, I still believe that sex robots would exist.

Just like a sacred intimate experience, sex robots have a place too.

Even if it feels awkward, I think many partners in monogamous relationships would rather have a virtual or surrogate partner than a sex worker or opening up the relationship.

I am incredibly interested in your opinions on sex robots and what you and your partner(s) think about the idea of intimacy with a machine.

The conference for love with robots is actually coming up and you can find more information here.

About Life Coaching and Therapy

Life Coaching and Therapy (LCAT) is a therapy and coaching practice that transforms our clients lives through our flexibility multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by systematically trained and licensed therapists!

Get to know our founder and owner, Amanda Pasciucco, (a.k.a. The Sex Healer) PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who has developed innovative therapy programs and therapy videos that get results.

Our team of compassionate, licensed therapists and certified sex therapists helps all clients who visit us for a variety of personal, relationship, intimacy and sex problems.

LCAT provides on-site appointments, as well as video chat and text therapy programs.

Learn more about how LCAT can help improve your life at What We Do.