Entries by Nicole Scrivano

Trauma Focused Therapy

Trauma Focused Therapy   Trauma focused therapy is therapy that focuses on helping clients/patients heal from various events that have happened in their life. Trauma focused therapy does not mean just “talking” about trauma. There are a variety of modalities that are evidenced based that have been shown to help people heal from trauma. Oftentimes, […]

Secrets to Noticing Trauma in Children

Secrets to Noticing Trauma in Children   Trauma in children can be difficult to understand and recognize.  Children do not have the language to identify what is wrong or if they are experiencing trauma.  As parents, caregivers, professionals, and adults, it is important to be mindful of various signs that COULD mean a child is […]

Hazard Warning! Identifying Trauma Symptoms

Hazard Warning! Identifying Trauma Symptoms   Those who experience trauma sometimes have trauma symptoms they are unaware of.    Risk Factors for Trauma Symptoms Some general risk factors that can increase someone’s likelihood of experiencing trauma symptoms are:  Marginalization and/or institutional “isms” as that creates circumstances that are more challenging  History of trauma within the […]

What is Trauma? Introducing the Trauma Meaning

What is Trauma? Introducing the Trauma Meaning. There is so much debate as to what to include and exclude in the trauma meaning.  Trauma. Ugh. Throughout history, the trauma meaning specifically centered around serving those in the armed services, firefighters, war veterans, police officers, and first responders experiencing symptoms after exposure to one event. The […]

The Pansexual Flag and Pansexuality

The Pansexual Flag and Pansexuality   Often in my practice or working with others in the mental health field, people ask me what various sexual and gender identities mean – one example we often get is “what is pansexuality?” Or “why does pansexual have a different flag?”    Pansexuality Pansexual is someone is who is […]

The Rainbow Flag –  The Story of “Our Rainbow” 

The Rainbow Flag – The Story of “Our Rainbow”  One night, I was reading a book to my six-month-old daughter about the Rainbow flag (“Our Rainbow”), and I learned that each color of the flag had a meaning and representation to the community itself.  Of course this makes sense when you think about it, but […]

Identity-Affirming Care

Identity-Affirming Care   Many individuals and therapy practices claim to be identity affirming, yet seem to lack the basic structure to support various identities such as race, ethnicity, age, gender, sexual or relationship orientation, etc.    As a therapist who specializes in LGBTQ+ issues, I see this OFTEN. Therapists and other health care professionals say […]

Bisexuality and Other Invisible Identities 

Bisexuality and Other Invisible Identities    Being attracted to more than one gender bisexuality (and pansexuality) can be complicated and wonderful!  In my work and over 8 years of experience as a therapist, I have learned an extraordinary amount about these identities that allow individuals and their partner(s) to manage their needs.    Some people […]

Gender Stereotypes in Toys

Gender Stereotypes in Toys Gender stereotypes in toys are recurring questions from parents! Parenting is complicated. Gender stereotyping in toys was normal in the past but times have changed!   Trying to parent children in an environment that allows for a child to explore their gender expression is complicated.  GenXers and Millennials are the next […]

My Fertility Journey

My Fertility Journey – Do Not Downplay the Impacts of Those Struggling With Infertility!    Fertility. Ugh.  It really is one of my least favorite “F” words. Fertility (or infertility, as many say) is a complex concept that is generally misunderstood by anyone who has not undergone it themselves.  The assumptions and statements made to […]

They Them Beyond the Binary UPDATE!

They Them – Beyond the Binary UPDATE!   Today I heard some great news for those who identify as they them! The Merriam-Webster Dictionary has added they them as new pronoun and the word of the year! This is a huge win for the non-binary and LGBTQ community. For years, people have commented that using […]