Entries by Nicole Scrivano

Conflict and COVID-19 – The Bubble System

Conflict and covid-19 seem to go hand-in-hand in our mental health practice. Something that is a pattern is the conflict surrounding people’s COVID-19 “bubbles” (and how to manage those boundaries). Many a session, I have spent speaking with couple’s, families, and individuals about negotiating boundaries around COVID-19 and how to do so appropriately. The biggest […]

Grief During Quarantining and COVID

Grief During Quarantining and COVID   During the last 10 months something that has been clearer in my clinical practice is grief and the intersection of COVID-19.  During this pandemic there are varying levels of grief that my clients are experiencing as a result of COVID-19.    What is Grief? Grief is the experience of […]

Post Election Stress and Using Compassionate Communication

Post Election Stress and Using Compassionate Communication    If you haven’t read part 1 of our post election stress series, please click here.  Post election stress is here to stay as we transition administrations.  In the meantime, we will give you our specific examples on how to communicate during this time.    Use Compassionate and […]

Are You Gender Conforming or Gender Non Conforming? 

Are You Gender Conforming or Gender Non Conforming?    Gender conforming and gender non conforming are common words utilized in our society today. Read our blog post to learn more about Gender Expression and Gender Non Conforming.   What is Gender Conforming? Gender conforming individuals are people who adhere to “normative” cultural standards surrounding gender […]

Why Do Marriages Fail During Covid?

Why Do Marriages Fail During Covid?   We are here to answer “why do marriages fail,” especially for those of you getting divorced during coronavirus.  During COVID, many marriages have remained in close quarters with limited interaction with others. As a couple’s therapist, I have seen many couples and/or relationships struggling due to quarantine, and […]

Sex Positive Parenting! Let’s Talk about Sex… Baby.

Sex Positive Parenting! Let’s Talk about Sex…Baby.   Sex and sexuality are more often than not stigmatized in our society, especially around our children and sex positive parenting.  Often, parents shame, objectify, or stigmatize most sexual behavior throughout child and adolescent development. In doing so, we set children up to have a lack of knowledge […]

Gender Non-Conforming or Gender Creative

Gender Non-Conforming or Gender Creative   Gender Non-Conforming or Gender Creative individuals are people whose gender expression does not follow the stereotypical “rules” surrounding what is expected in male or female within our society.  You may wonder what is gender non-conforming or what does it mean when people are gender creative?  In our society, we […]

Queer Women

Queer Women   Queer women are wonderful. Even though I may be biased that queer women are wonderful, hear me out and let me explain the why!    What does Queer even mean? Back in the day being dubbed “queer” was a slur and negative.  People used that to insult people in the LGBTQ+ community […]

Transgenerational Trauma

Transgenerational Trauma   TRIGGER WARNING: Transgenerational Trauma and Can Trauma get Passed Down in the DNA?  There is a new body of research which is talking about how trauma can be passed down generationally (including through biology).  I first learned about this over the last several years in specializing trauma and noticing that my clients […]

Parenting in a Pandemic

Parenting in a Pandemic   Parenting in a pandemic; 2020 has proven to be one of the most unique years in modern history!  Most notably due to of COVID-19 or the Coronavirus, parenting in the pandemic has become a primary focus!  A notable challenge has been parenting in a pandemic, especially during the quick changes. […]

Gender Expression and Gender Identity

Gender Expression and Gender Identity   What is it?  It is talked about so much now and so often we find people needing more information about gender and its different facets.  I am writing this as a way to help create some clarity surrounding gender, gender conformity, and gender expression – I hope it helps! […]